Week 6: Gratitude

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It’s easy to get grumpy.

We live in a culture of “get more!” and “look good” and “get more likes on Instagram!” When we’re in a hustle-hustle life, we can often feel like we’re constantly falling short. Our culture’s cult of celebrity and the shininess of social media makes it harder than to stay grounded reality. After all, how easy is it to feel happy in our own less than perfect lives when we are inundated with images of vibrant, healthy couples oozing romance while on an exotic vacation? Or – for the yogis out there – when we see image after image of sunk-kissed, windswept yogis performing impossible arm balances on a beach?

We start to believe that we are lacking something that everyone else seems to have.

First of all, friends, let’s start by understanding that the perfect lives on social media are a fabrication. Now, I know we know this in our minds. We are smart critters. But even though we intellectually understand that social media is often “life advertising,” there’s an emotional part of our brain that doesn’t register this intellectual insight. Social media targets our emotional center, where we can be susceptible to feelings of unworthiness, loneliness, and isolation. So if you’re wondering why Instagram is making you feel bad (even when you know better), know that you’re not alone…and that’s kind of what it’s designed to do.

But lucky for us, there is an antidote. It’s super simple, and it’s free.

It’s gratitude.

When we start focusing on what we have, rather than what we don’t, our emotional perspective almost instantaneously shifts. It’s like one of those negative space drawings, where all of a sudden you see two faces rather than a vase. Although our situation hasn’t changed, we can see it from a different perspective. And all the good stuff that we have suddenly comes into view.

I was reading the Yoga Sutra earlier, and there is a niyama (guidelines for living) that resonates: santosha, or contentment. Patanjali writes that, “By contentment, supreme joy is gained.” (Translation: Swami Satchidananda). Practicing gratitude is a radical act of self-care and self-validation.

“By contentment, supreme joy is gained.”

Translation by Swami Satchidananda

This week, your task: Create a daily gratitude practice.

For me, I do this practice by writing out at least five things for which I’m grateful before bed. It can be simple: I have been grateful for my breath, grateful for my morning coffee, and grateful that I live in an era of antibiotics.

You may choose to do your practice when you first get up, or to put things for which you are grateful on sticky notes and put them around the house to be reminded of them throughout the day. It may be a simple meditation, in which you reflect on your gratitude list internally. However you decide to do it, the idea is to spend at least two minutes to bring all the good stuff in your life into the light.

Ready…and….Go!

As a treat, here is my non-Instaglamourous morning face 😉

Rachel before full coffee.

Week 4: No sugar

Say no to sugar

Greetings from Berlin! Week 4 of our 52 weeks of health: no sugar.

You can take this as strictly as you want: anything from “I won’t eat the cool whip directly from the container,” to “no sugars at all, including simple carbs like sugar, pasta, wheat…” Choose your spectrum of health!

Too much simple sugar is a huge health danger. One of my friends (recovered from cancer), said his doc told him that “sugar was cancer’s friend.” Yikes. Getting our blood glucose regulated and resilient is a huge step in the right direction. Sugar can be medicine, or poison just like anything else, and sometimes it takes us retraining our body and taste buds to get back on track. The last time I fasted from sugar, my ability to taste completely changed. All of a sudden, carrots were like candy!

Starting on Monday. Ready, set….Week 4.

#smalldailyacts #52weeksofhealth

Week 3: Meditate

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Meditation.
We’re gonna make this really accessible.
At least two minutes a day.

Meditation has shown to be incredibly beneficial for your mental state and for stress. Getting into the practice of mindfulness is a relatively low hanging fruit in the health world. We just have to shut off the monkey mind (“one more thing to do!”) and get our butts into those chair (or meditation cushions).
Now, you can do as long as you want, but I’m going to propose that you have a dedicated sit for at least two minutes a day. That means, butt in chair (or on floor) and setting a timer.

Grossly speaking, you can meditate in two different ways: open meditation or focus meditation.

I recommend a focus meditation, in which you choose something (word, your breath, sensation, etc.) to bring your attention to. When your attention drifts, you return back to that object of attention.

Open meditation is where you create a loose awareness of the present moment. (Attention may be prone to wander in this kind.)

Apps can help: 10%, Calm.

I have a bunch of meditations on this site you’re welcome to use.

There are also free meditations online, and at DoYogaWithMe.

Gather your resource and let’s get busy being still!


The Science Behind Sleep and How to Improve It

“Don’t it always seem to go… that you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone?” – Joni Mitchell

If you’ve lost the ability to get a good night’s sleep, you can attest to this (Joni Mitchell never lies). No one appreciates sleep more than someone who is having trouble getting it.

The reasons behind your lack of sleep may be internal or external, but the good news is that we have solutions for both.

Why sleep is so crucial

When you think of all the important things you have to do in a day, sleep probably doesn’t even make the cut. It’s nothing more than a time when we recharge our batteries, so we can start over and tackle another day. But what if someone told you that sleep is one of the most important things you can do for your health?

All the other stuff –eating right, exercising and avoiding bad habits—is important too, but your body would be in serious trouble without sleep.

While you’re sleeping, the brain is busy forming new pathways to get you ready to learn, remember and function the next day. Your body is healing and repairing the heart and blood vessels and helping to maintain a healthy balance of hormones that control your eating and immune system. You’ll notice this when you start getting more colds throughout the year. 

The science of sleep

When you drift off to dreamland, you’re in a state of REM sleep. But you don’t get there immediately.

First, you enter the type of sleep scientists call non-REM sleep. Non-REM sleep actually consists of four stages.

  • Stage 1 happens right when you first start drifting off to sleep. This is usually when someone nudges you and you swear you weren’t sleeping.
  • Stage 2 is when your heart rate and breathing slow and your body temperature drops.
  • Stages 3 and 4 of non-REM sleep are a form of deep sleep.

You may have heard that REM sleep is where it’s at, but scientists have since learned that non-REM sleep is even more important than REM sleep for learning and memory.

REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep is the type of sleep where you dream. This is a period of deep sleep where your eyes move rapidly behind closed lids and your brainwaves are almost as active as when you’re awake. During REM sleep, your breathing quickens and the body becomes paralyzed as you dream.

On any given night, you’ll cycle between non-REM and REM sleep about 4 to 5 times.

How to get more sleep

There are two kinds of major sleep disturbances: internal and external. You may only be dealing with one kind, or you may suffer from a combination. Either way, these tips can help you get a better rest.

External sleep disturbances

We’ve all had sleepless nights because someone was making too much of a racket, whether it was your child, a construction crew or an inconsiderate neighbor. And while there’s usually little you can do about the source of these issues, there are some things you can do to help yourself get as much sleep as possible.

  • Get some good earplugs – Of course, this isn’t recommended if your child is the one keeping you up, but in almost any other case, earplugs can help dull the external noise enough for you to get some rest.
  • Use room darkening curtains – If you have to sleep at off hours, you may benefit from getting room darkening shades or curtains. These will help trick your body into thinking it’s supposed to be sleeping.
  • Go to sleep earlier – If you know something is going to disturb your sleep, like a crying baby, get to sleep earlier to make up for the lost sleep. It’s not the same as sleeping through the night in one stretch, but it’s a good temporary solution.

Internal sleep disturbances

You spend all day longing for your bed, but then you get your first big burst of energy as your head hits the pillow. Again. Or you fall straight to sleep only to wake up at 3 a.m. every night – like clockwork.

These things could be happening for a myriad of reasons, but they are signs that you need to take better care of your body during the day. Here are some tips to help take care of yourself, so you can get better sleep.

  • Cut back on alcohol – You may think that glass of wine is helping you sleep, but it could be doing the opposite. If you drink a lot of alcohol right before bed, it will almost certainly lead to a restless sleep. In fact, the more you drink, the less likely you are to get a deep REM sleep.
  • Spend 30 minutes to an hour on relaxation – The National Sleep Foundation recommends that you read a non-work-related book or magazine, spend a few minutes journaling, perform a hygiene ritual and/or meditate before bed.
  • Get a massage – As if you needed an excuse to get a massage, the National Institutes of Health advises that massage therapy can reduce fatigue and improve sleep, specifically, it can help you get more of that restorative deep sleep you’re after.
  • Exercise daily – Try to get at least thirty minutes of exercise daily, and make sure some of it is vigorous. Maybe add a sprint to your jog or take a spinning class each week. Just get that heart rate up during the day and you should benefit from better sleep, according to the National Sleep Foundation.
  • Eat more leafy greens – Insomnia is a common symptom of magnesium deficiency. This mineral works by increasing GABA which encourages relaxation and sleep. If you’re not getting enough magnesium in your diet, magnesium deficiency may be causing your insomnia. Green leafies are high in magnesium, but if you’re not a fan, you can also up your intake of figs, avocados, bananas, nuts and seeds, black beans, brussels sprouts, green beans, and seafood.

If you’re reading this article after pulling another unintentional all-nighter, know that there’s an end in sight. Follow the tips outlined here and you should be able to improve your quality and quantity of sleep over time. If you’re still having trouble sleeping, talk to your doctor about potential causes. Together, you should be able to get to the bottom of the issue, so you can get back to sleep.

How to practice self care (it’s not just about the spa)

I hear the term “self care” thrown out there a LOT. In fact, I use the words “self care” frequently myself! Self care has the potential to help us sustain our health and our relationship to ourselves. But what is “self care” really – and how do we practice it?

I want to take a moment and unpack the concept of “self care” as I have come to experience and understand it in my life, in my practice and in my work.

There is more to self care than the “treat yourself nice” type of care. Consumer self care (spa days, pedicures, afternoons at the beach) can be yummy and nourishing, but by itself it only provides a quick fix from the stresses of life.

What form of self-care is deeper?

Deep Self Care

Deep self care is about having your own back and attending to yourself much like a parent would a child. It means getting real and making clear choices for your long-term wellness. This is capital S-elf care.

Sometimes self care is pretty and smells good. But sometimes this kind of consumer self care only scratches the surface of what we really, deeply need. While it may be pleasant to spend a your day at the spa, we may found ourselves replaying out habitual stress patterns the very next day. When we look at our lives more holistically, maybe a better form of true self care would be to create a spreadsheet for your monthly budget or dig into that relationship that isn’t really serving you anymore… get my drift?

Self care is care provided “for you, by you”. It’s about identifying your own needs and taking steps to meet them. While it may involve a spa day, it is also about taking the time to do the activities that nurture you and support your priorities. And it is so much more. It is practicing your ability to survive and thrive and by building your intuitiveness and resilience.

Take some time to connect to yourself and get clear on your true self care needs. At times, this may lead you to delight in simplicity without having to buy, consume or add anything. At other times, you may be guided to a specific food, a practitioner, a city, a task (that budget, for example), a class or a massage.

Sacred Ritual

Self Care is a sacred ritual.

Any action that you take that has meaning and effects beyond its surface appearance. Health and happiness are not things that comes ready made; they arise from your own actions: your intentional, mindful and powerful actions. The choice is always yours.

If you’d like to learn more about creating your personal deep self-care strategy, I’m offering complimentary 30-minute sessions through September 30 in Vancouver or via Skype. It’s an opportunity to get clear, define your deeper needs, and set your priorities for a sustainable fall and winter.

Book a free 30-minute session.

Swedish Death Clean Your Life

Swedish death cleaning:

döstädning: cleaning and de-cluttering before you die

My friend was moving across the country. In preparation for her move, she was sorting her possession into two piles: what would be moved, and what would be sacrificed to the Salvation Army gods. She sighed and blew her hair out of her face as she placed an armful of clothing into the Sally Ann pile, “I am embracing the Swedish death clean,” she declared.

“Pardon, the what?”

“The Swedish death clean,” she said, “it’s when you declutter your life before you die so your heirs don’t have to deal with your crap. But, you know, I am going to embrace it now. I want to get ride of it all!” She looked at her piles, then moved a pair of jeans back in her “keep” box. “Well…most of it.”

Generally speaking, we humans don’t deal well with change. We don’t like letting go. Whether we’re giving up the teddy bear from fourth grade (“I can’t possibly throw Mr. Fuzzy out!”),  moving cities, changing jobs, or ending a relationship, we hate the idea of dissolution.

“Death is hard, even for the wise.” – The Yoga Sutra

When I moved from New York City to Vancouver, I was completely disoriented. All the pillars that I had used to identify myself (“I’m an actor,” “I’m a New Yorker,” “I’m an American,”) were gone. Those anchors had made me feel safe, grounded, and relevant, dammit. Rather than realizing that I was still “me” (no matter where I was or what I was doing), I kept scrambling to try to fix my problem and find something else to hold onto.

The external stuff that we cling to (whether it’s a physical object or a mental idea about who we are) feels very comforting, but it also keeps us stuck in an idea about who we are “supposed” to be.

  • “I’m a doctor.”
  • “I’m a mom.”
  • “I’m a yoga teacher.”

Even worse, you may get stuck in someone else’s idea of who you are supposed be. Uh-oh. And – newsflash – the nature of the world is to change. Trying to keep the external world from changing is a recipe for suffering.

Ignorance is mistaking the impermanent for the permanent. – The Yoga Sutra

Ironically – scrambling to “stay safe” will also keep you from realizing that you are already okay.

It’s like rock climbing. Imagine for a moment that you’re halfway up the rock face and fighting hard to hold onto your climbing rope. You’re terrified of falling and you’re starting to slip. And yet when you are forced to let go, you discover that you were strapped in a safety harness the whole time. Ta-da! But until you dared release your grip, you couldn’t see that everything was fine.

When we let go of our external labels, we discover that we are already whole, safe, and free.

Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found. – Pema Chodron

Here’s the invitation: Swedish death clean your life.

Do a literal Swedish death clean, and get rid of that box of comics from the 80’s or collection of teaspoons from childhood. Or you could death clean your  habits or relationships. Challenge your comfortable routines.

Shake up your firm and steady ground. Enjoy the free fall. And let your true nature arise.

How eating became a spiritual practice

I pray before meals.

I was raised a dutiful Protestant in the great, puritanical state of New Hampshire. I went to church, participated in singing and bell choirs, and crushed on the boys in my youth group (ah, Derek!). However, my family was more spiritually oriented than strictly Christian. My dad used to joke, “I’d make a good Jew.” What he meant was that it was important to have a spiritual compass, but the specific instrument didn’t really matter.  All good compasses point true north.

In my family, we said grace before meals. Sometimes my dad would say, “Lord, bless this food to the nourishment of our bodies and thus to thy service. Amen.” Sometimes it was simply, “Thanks to the critters.”

Although I was raised in the church, it wasn’t until about six years ago that I started saying grace myself in earnest. Not because I identify as Christian, but because I stopped being vegan.

When I was vegan, there was no moral price to pay for eating my food. I had become vegan because of my aversion to animal cruelty, and I felt just fine eating plants and grains. But when I left the vegan fold, I became acutely aware of the cost of my meals. Animals – cute, sentient animals – had died. Before being vegan, I had lived my dietary life in slipshod form of denial. (You know the kind: where you decide that cheeseburgers grow on trees and ignore factory farming.) But now I could not ignore the weight of my decisions. Yes, yes, I would buy the expensive organic meat raised in relatively “humane” conditions. Yes, yes, I would eat meat sparingly. But there was no denying it: death was on my plate.

In my heart, I felt that I owed it to each creature to contemplate their fate. In every meal, I was participating – viscerally – in the life and death cycle. I was responsible for choosing this meal. And through this meal, this animal literally would now become a part of me – of my muscles, of my cells, of my material being.

In our culture, we hide death. But here it was unavoidable. Just like this animal had died, I too, would die and be resolved back to my component parts. The world was a seething and complex cycle of birth and death, creation and destruction. Every item on my plate – including plants – became a study of the ephemerality of life.

But while a part of me cried to sense the bittersweet cycle of life and death, I could also feel the poignant beauty of my interdependence with the fabric of the great wide world. Every morsel of food was a reminder of my connection to the world: my carrot could be traced back to the grocery store, then to the staff and workers who transported it, then to the machines (and humans) who harvested it, to the soil of earth, to the light of the sun. There had been so many hands involved in bringing this one little carrot to my plate.

Eating had become a spiritual practice.

The web of interconnection necessary to produce a single plate of food is almost incomprehensible. Saying grace before meals reminds me to re-member my connection to the whole. To be awed by Nature’s generosity and incredible diversity. To appreciate the effort, toil, and sacrifice that has brought this meal into being. To touch the bittersweet longing of my aliveness and mortality.

I may return to veganism, but I will never lose the gratitude and awe that I have now discovered in eating my food. So, to the critters, and the veggies, and the world, I say a heartfelt, “Amen.”

Filling Up Your Energy: Four Tips to Slow Down

We have a cultural habit of high productivity and effort, and many well intended people end up burnt out or grappling with restlessness. Over time, even the most “advanced” or seasoned yoga practitioners must re-learn the importance of staying present. If you often feel like you’re walking one pace faster than you physically can, perhaps it’s time to consider the amount of enjoyment you have in what you’re doing. While progress may feel stilted when we slow down, ultimately our lives become more enjoyable when we can detach ourselves from achievement, and tune into our experiences instead.

When you first approach any endeavour, start by setting your attention on a thought that encourages an attitude of open interest. When we draw on our inner resources of breath, presence, and current awareness, we are much less likely to become entangled ahead of ourselves. Whether we know our own “saboteur” well or not, there is always an ebb and flow in progress. The more present we stay, the less likely we are to find ourselves stuck in a familiar dilemma or discouraging set back.

Try these simple practices in the morning, before an important interaction, or any time during the day you feel yourself picking up momentum towards becoming scattered or anxious.

Notice your physical space.

Most meditation techniques guide you to begin by following your breath, but I find this challenging in particularly bustling environments. When my attention feels fragmented, it helps to focus on just a few objects in my immediate vicinity.

Pay attention to the specific colours and objects around you that draw your interest.

If the first few observations you make feel distressing, look instead for a striking object that peaks your interest. Keep it simple at first: a design, a child’s expression or a colour palette that relaxes you.

Tune into your body.

Get to know what helps you personally stay present, and brings your focus from scattered to centered. Some people wiggle their toes to connect to their feet, while others begin a deep belly breath. Personally, a few shoulder rolls or simple movements help me release any tension or emotions I may be feeling.

Remember your original motive.

Use your cognitive thinking skills to do a quick check in. Is it time to take a break from my efforts, change environments or connect with an outside source to help me get back in my groove? As much as we like to build our ability to “tune in”, none of us need to tackle life alone. Increasing your connection to the support around you can renew your enthusiasm and offer a fresh perspective. We all need those moments with a friend, pet, or nature to appreciate and balance the momentum of our lives.

Ultimately, we are creating our lives and how we want to feel in them, day by day. We become more energized by consciously creating more enjoyment as we navigate changes and meeting the needs of the day. Whatever your next endeavour, make sure you don’t speed towards completion, but pause along the way. Letting the energy flow towards where you are headed by staying present will feel more rewarding than urgently rushing through our days.

Improve your sports performance! Yoga as a Cross-training Activity

Have you ever wondered what will improve your sport performance or prevent sport-related injuries?

Doing more of our desired activity may seem like the obvious answer. For example, if we want to improve performance in swimming or running, then to do more swimming or running would improve our performance in both respectively.

However, while that may be true, if all we did was the same activity we would hit a certain plateau where we are no longer making advances in skill and performance development. Also, by routinely engaging strictly in the same activity and the same movement patterns, we subject ourselves to more wear and tear on the same muscles and joints. Not only can this lead to injury, it can also cause a disengaging level of boredom and loss of enjoyment. If we infuse a variety of exercise and movement with an activity such as yoga, however, we capture the benefits of cross-training.

Cross-training

Cross-training is designed to elevate an athlete’s performance. It is a strategic combination of exercise variety to enhance skill and performance. For the weekend warrior or recreational sport enthusiast, cross training can assist in total body fitness and help prevent injury. If we are inclined to engage in a variety of exercise modalities, we are also more likely to adhere to an exercise program or routine which makes exercise fun and enjoyable. A regular yoga practice with elements such as Asana, Pranayama and meditation can be a wonderful addition to our routine to improve our fitness level and establish a connection of spirit mind and body.

Asana, a Sanskrit word referring to poses, provides an opportunity to observe our movement. We notice the body’s cues, strengths and weaknesses, especially when practicing at a slower pace. Yoga is about the journey rather than the destination and provides a beneficial opportunity to notice our movement rather than just achieve a specific pose expression.

Develop Movements, Not Muscles

The theory of developing movements rather than muscles is more recognized in sport-specific or high-performance trainings. Have you ever looked closely at movement into and out of a yoga pose? Did you notice that Tree pose (vrksasana) and Warrior 2 (virabhadrasana 2) are a part of a baseball pitcher’s wind up? Have you observed the execution of Warrior 3 (virabhadrasana 3) and how it mimics that of a single-leg deadlift?  A regular yoga practice can encourage safe and effective movement patterns that directly transfer to sport performance. For example, chair pose (utkatasana) or any of the forward folds will enhance the mechanics of hip-hinging. Hinging at the hips is paramount for a safe and effective deadlift. The key is to choose poses that resemble your desired sport or activity to refine movement and further develop skill and performance. It is equally (if not more important) to choose poses that are opposite to your desired sport or activity. Working the opposing muscles assists to avoid postural dysfunctions or repetitive-use injuries. 

Breath Awareness

In yoga, breathing practice is referred to as Pranayama or controlled (mindful) breathing. While there are many Pranayama techniques with unique benefits, the first objective is to become aware, through mindfulness, of our breath pattern and control. This heightened awareness slows breathing down, which can increase its effectiveness. Most of us chest breathe, which means we inhale and exhale up in the chest space using only 20% of our lung capacity. Belly breathing, however, is when the diaphragm expands down into the belly, which helps bring breath into the lower lobes of the lungs. A pranayama technique called diaphragmatic breathing, or 3-part breathing, teaches us to fill the lungs from the bottom to the top to expand the belly, then the ribs and then the chest. We follow that with an exhale, releasing the chest then the ribs and then the belly. This 3-part, full diaphragmatic breathing (or yogi breathing) is a great foundation to acquire the skills of other Pranayama techniques. Controlled breathing promotes optimal cellular exchange, reduces stress levels and wards off stress-related illness such as Cardiovascular disease and high blood pressure.

Another aspect of the body strongly affected by controlled breathing is our nervous system. A lot of life demands a sympathetic nervous system response: fight or flight. Our overtaxed nervous system comes from always being on the go, operating with many things on our plate or even overtraining. Slow, deep breathing allows access to the parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest), where the body has the ability to rest, destress and heal. It is also when we make training adaptations such as strength gains, increased lean muscle mass, power, speed and even weight loss. Even 3-5 minutes of pranayama placed at the beginning or at the end of your workout will improve your focus and create synchronicity with your breath and movement. Over the long term, deeper breathing will come more naturally and overall breath and body awareness will improve performance and skill development.

Meditation

Mindful breathing opens the door to meditation, a practice dating back centuries and has profound benefits that interface with all aspects of life, even our workouts. It is also profoundly effective in training the mind. Regular mediation alters brain function, improving our ability to focus and concentrate. By helping us to develop the effective pause between stimulus and response, we become less reactive and more conscious of our actions. A regular meditation practice helps to reduce stress and fear and also helps replace negative-pattern thinking with positive. It promotes better sleep patterns, builds our immune system, improves our mood and allows us the capacity to program our body to perform with precision. With improved focus and a heightened mind-body awareness, we are more equipped to meet our training goals. We are also equipped with better sleep patterns and a high-functioning immune system to give us strength against illness and injury or to heal and repair should either occur.

Conclusion

A regular practice will produce noticeable results. Asana practice 2-3 times per week will yield benefits in how we move and how we feel. Pranayama and meditation may be built into our day beginning with as little as 5-10 minutes and expanding as desired and shift the way we think and perceive the world around us. Because of its multifaceted practice and holistic benefits, yoga addresses training for spirit, mind and body. Yoga, though not necessarily the first cross-training activity we think of, is a surprisingly excellent choice.

 

 

 

 

The Science Behind How Yoga Reduces Stress

Many people have heard that yoga reduces stress, but there’s real science behind it.

Of course, any time you increase the heart rate (like with a few chaturangas), your body releases endorphins, which is the driving force behind that famed “runner’s high and a natural stress reducer. However, yoga taps into stress relief on a much deeper level. By incorporating techniques like pranayama (breath control) and meditation, yoga can help manage and reduce stress.

Pranayama

Pranayama is an umbrella term for breath control. There are a number of pranayama practices within yoga as outlined in Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras and the Hatha Yoga Pradipika. Pranayama can decrease injury, cleanse the body, and relax/de-stress. The vast majority of people are shallow upper chest breathers. If you pull in a deep breath and fill your lungs to capacity, then fully release until there’s truly nothing left, it can feel like a workout—it is. The lungs aren’t used to being fully utilized, and the ribs/intercostal muscles (muscles between the ribs) aren’t used to being so fully worked. Be careful with pranayama, because it can be overwhelming for newcomers. The best way to practice early on is in a class setting with a teacher skilled in pranayama.

Pranayama is effective for stress reduction because it calms the body’s sympathetic nervous system. Otherwise known as the fight or flight instinct, this nervous symptom gushes adrenaline into the body when you’re excited or scared. Adrenaline raises the heartbeat and surges stress hormones into the body. It’s an critical defense tool when you’re really in trouble, but North Americans have a tendency to being adrenaline junkies. We’re constantly stimulating ourselves with technology, and this has led to a veritable breakdown of the sympathetic nervous system. In some ways, your body gets used to all that adrenaline and stress hormones, but at what cost? We’re in a constant state of fight or flight, and all those stress hormones build up over time. It’s part of the reason why heart disease is the number one killer of American women.

With certain types of pranayama (those designed for relaxation), you can reduce the stress response of the body and nestle into recuperation. When the parasympathetic nervous system, known as “rest and digest,”  is given a time out, your body returns to its natural, restful state and can recover. That’s why it’s so important to practice pranayama and/or meditation daily, particularly first thing in the morning and before bed. Otherwise, you might be in stress mode 24/7 (especially if you suffer from insomnia).

As previously mentioned, there are many types of pranayama exercises, and it’s always best to have a trusted in-person instructor when beginning pranayama practice. However, one of the safest and most effective pranayama is the simple counted breath. Begin by inhaling for a count of five, exhaling for a count of five. If you can stay calm, hold the breath for five counts after the inhale. If you still feel calm, there’s the option to add retention after the exhale, too.

Another simple pranayama practice is two-part breath with legs up the wall. It’s popular before bedtime because the inversion (heart above head) is naturally relaxing. Two-part breath is the same as four-part breath but without the holds. You can choose any equal number to inhale and exhale with, as long as you completely fill and empty the lungs. If you can, putting weight (such as a bolster or heavy pillow) on the feet when they’re up the wall can provide an added sense of security. It’s normal for the legs to go numb or tingly in this position. For beginners, do not hold this pose longer than five minutes and practice caution when exiting the pose because dizziness can occur.

The counting of breaths and/or the ticking of the clock help to ensure you’re not focused on anything but breath. You might find that you tire easily, which is common for those just starting their practice. While in pranayama, your sympathetic nervous system is is pacified. Without having to focus on “fight or flight,” the amount of stress hormones released is reduced.

The Inner Voice

Stress comes at us in various ways. Triggers for stress come in many forms, both external and internal. Stress can also be a bit addictive. Even though we know technology usage often leads to higher stress levels—with social media usage linked to loneliness—we can’t get enough of it. Adrenaline can be a bit addictive in itself. Learning to balance our lives can start with literally balancing ourselves. It’s one of the core foundations of yoga and is prioritized in asanas and pranayama.

Hypnotherapists such as Marisa Peer have said that “rewriting the bad programs” we’ve downloaded can be corrected by hypnotic mantras. A popular option is “Hare Krishna, Hare Krisha. Krishna, Krishna, Hare, Hare.” Chanting in the alpha brainwave state, which can be achieved through meditative practices, helps us to get rid of the negative influences we hold within. The stress we carry with us isn’t permanently ingrained, but it does take some work to release it.

Our inner voice (or subconscious mind) operates like a kind of hard disk of our bodily computer. Stress causes the subconscious to download negative programs that can clog up normal function. This can lead to pain, chronic disease, and poor relationships. Our overly stimulated lives cause many of us to develop an inner voice that’s our worst critic. We’re encouraged to practice modesty, many times at a false level (i.e. always downplaying successes or brushing them aside instead of celebrating them) and self-deprecation. Overly done, this kind of denigrative thinking can have damaging effects. Cognitive reconditioning, or learning to speak nicely to ourselves, can be amplified with yoga for stress reduction.

Yoga and Self-Awareness

Yoga forces us to consider our breath and our movement, two things we rarely pay much attention to. It gives us the tools we need to slow down and to focus. The “white noise” of controlling our breath or fluid movements keeps the barrage of our inner voice at bay. We concentrate and we focus on safely stretching the body a touch beyond its limits with yoga. It’s not usually a high-intensity workout through the entire practice, but rather a means of returning to our center. That’s at the core of what stress reduction requires, and a first step in being kinder to ourselves.

Love-hate relationship with wheel? A physiotherapist explores one reason deep yoga backbends may not work for some bodies.  

Managing a love-hate relationship with wheel pose

Wheel was always one of the poses that came easily to me in yoga. Despite my internally rotated hips limiting me in hip openers, I could do wheel and I could go as high as I wanted. However, as my yoga practice progressed through the years, I began to feel a vague whisper at the height of my wheel…something wasn’t quite right.

Soon after this, while at a power yoga retreat in Costa Rica, my instructor trialed an adjustment in which he did a very high cat pose under me to push me a little higher…unfortunately without asking me first about how I was feeling in the pose and whether I was open to the adjustment.

So impressed by the aesthetics of the pose, my fellow yogis asked me: “How did that feel?” I hesitated to be truthful as I didn’t want to put my teacher down, but quite honestly, it felt as if I had been pushed past the point of safety for my body.

Backbends are a key part of yoga practice.

They have many benefits including countering the flattening of lordosis (natural sway curve of the lower back) that slowly happens with prolonged sitting, stimulating the discs of the spine, stretching ligaments and muscles, and on an energetic level, opening the heart, as well as many more. There is, however, a point for some spines where going to end range and accessing the highest point possible may not be wise.

A little too much range of motion

As you are likely aware, the spine is composed of 33 vertebrae that sit in a curved-column. The upper 24 vertebral segments are separated by discs, attached by ligaments (soft-tissue bands) that move and glide on top of each other, while the lower 9 are essentially fused in most adults (the sacrum and coccyx). The 5 vertebrae that sit on top of the sacrum are referred to as the lumbar spine and this is where I will focus the discussion on backbends here.

Bodies that can do yoga, usually end up in yoga

Yoga tends to be self-selecting, especially in the more physically “advanced” yoga styles such as power yoga. In other words, the more flexible one’s body is, the more likely they are to enjoy and gravitate to those classes because the poses are more accessible to them than to others who don’t have that range available in their joints.

Flexible bodies have the genetic make-up to be able to do a wider variety of yoga poses. There is much to be said about dedication to yoga practice, however how far we will get to in many yoga poses will be largely determined by our genetics and body-type.

The other commonality is that flexible bodies, especially females, tend to identify this ability early on in life. Therefore, if we look at the young girls and women training for gymnastics and competitive dance, they will have a greater than average range in their joints. Their joints will go further than most people’s when pushed to the limit.

These body types may present with a weakness at the lower two segments of L4-5 and L5-S1 (the first sacral vertebrae. This manifests as the top vertebrae slipping forward on the bottom one (see diagram) and happens in end-range extension of the lower back, such as deeper backbends like upward facing dog, camel and wheel pose.

This type of instability is termed a “spondylolisthesis” and can present in varying grades. Grade 1-2 being more minimal and grade 3-5 being more severe. The more severe forms can involve a weakening and fracture of the back portion of the vertebrae, called the pars interarticularis.

Explaining the slip

A certain amount of spondylolisthesis is likely congenital and pre-existing in one’s body. As much as 5-6%  of the general population has pre-existing spondylolysis, many of whom will be completely pain-free.  

However, it is possible that when they begin an activity which stresses this instability through repetitive backbends, they begin to reinforce the looseness in the joint and force it into a forward position where it begins to cause impingement of nerves and stretch ligaments that can bring on feelings of back pain, numbness in the buttocks and legs, and even nausea due to stress on the nervous system and internal organs.

As we age, our joints naturally begin to become less elastic and viscose, the repetitive trauma that our spines have endured through these stresses may start to cause weakness and we may not feel as comfortable going as deep into backbends as we used to.

Common activities involving such repetitive backbends are yoga styles with repetitive vinyasas, gymnastics, and some styles of dance.

Then what?

In my practice as a physiotherapist in downtown Vancouver, an area where there is probably more yoga available than any other city in the world,  I often treat young women presenting with lower back pain during and after yoga practice that I believe is due to some of this instability (explained above) and a mild to moderate spondylolesthesis in their lower lumbar spine

Diagnosing a spondylolesthesis

If you are beginning to notice pain, stiffness or numbness in the hours or days following a practice involving deep back bends, or if these poses are causing you pain, there are tests that a skilled orthopaedic physiotherapist can do to assess you.

Most of the time, there will not be a need for imaging or tests unless a more significant slippage or fracture is suspected.

Managing spondylolesthesis: The good news

Most yoga practice can be adapted and modified to care for these instabilities.

Here’s a few ways:

  • Practice a posterior pelvic tilt: tucking your tail posteriorly tilts your pelvis and helps to tighten and stabilize the lower few segments of the spine. Starting your backbends with a posterior pelvic tilt can help to protect you from shearing the joints.
  • Shift the focus in backbends up into the mid-back (thoracic spine): with all the sitting we do these days at computers and phones, shifting the focus on backbends you’re your upper back can help strengthen of the muscles there, taking some of the pressure off of the lower back.
  • Consider shifting to a style of practice that involves less vinyasas or sit a few out during your current classes.
  • Work on your abdominal muscles to counter some of the flexibility you have in your lower back. Having a tighter superficial core will allow you to better control your backbends and may help compensate for the increased range that you have in your back. Additionally, switching up your routine to include activities that strengthen your core muscles, such as pilates, may be beneficial. (A series of one-one pilates sessions prior to beginning classes if preferable).

These instabilities and the limitations they bring can be gifts in disguise. Yoga should, at it’s core, be about caring for ourselves and our bodies and developing a relationship where we can listen and understand the messages it is sending us.

As we age, so our practice must change and it is with this approach that we can still have a full, satisfying practice – even without deep back bends.

How to Stretch at Your Desk: Yoga while you work

Last month we took a look at the effects that sitting for long periods of time can have on the body. I shared a simple yoga sequence to help alleviate some of the pain points many people experience from repeatedly sitting at a desk all day. I’ve taken this a step further and have put together some yoga stretches for you to do at your desk!

Most of us already know that movement is essential to our health. And we’re painfully aware that the majority of us are not currently getting enough movement in any given day. But why does the body need to move?

First, moving the body is essential to keeping it limber. What does your body feel like after you’ve been sitting for too long? Do certain areas start to feel numb? Does your body feel stiff as you stand up and start to move? Professor, James Levine reminds us that “humans were designed to walk.” In fact, we’ve been walking for over 7 million years. Which means that we’re just scratching the surface when it comes to understanding how sitting is detrimental to our health. When we sit for a long period of time, we start to cut off blood flow to certain areas of the body and frequent movement helps get the blood flowing properly and efficiently.

Think about what happens to your spine as you sit at your desk; the rounding, hunching, and compression of the spine. Our spine is designed to move in a variety of ways, and sitting at a desk all day doesn’t allow for this movement to happen. According to this article in the Huffington Post, “the average healthy person’s back will take a beating from this low-energy lifestyle, leading to increased pain, stiffness and long-term problems.” If you were to pause right now and take a snapshot of your posture, what does it look like? Are there any adjustments you can make, right now?

We’ve all experienced the “brain fog” that sets in when we’ve been sitting and pouring over a spreadsheet, contract, or other data. Getting up and moving is also good for the brain. Choosing to get up and move will allow your eyes to take a rest, your laser-like attention to shift to something else for a few moments, and will get your blood flowing. When more blood flows to the brain, we increase the amount of oxygen, which helps us think in a more focused way. Livestrong shares that the fastest way to get a dose of oxygen for your brain is to take a walk.

Here are some stretches that you can do at your desk. Be creative and use what you’ve got! Chairs, desks, and even walls can all be great props and help support your office stretch session.

Side Bend

This is a great way to move the spine in a lateral direction.

  • Stand with your feet inner hip-distance apart; stack your hips over your knees and ankles. Be sure that your hips are square (level, left to right).
  • Reach your right arm up overhead and then reach your arm towards the left.
  • You might find that after a few breaths, you are able to go deeper in the stretch.
  • Hold for 5 cycles of breath.
  • Repeat on the other side.

Backbend

This stretch will help to open the chest and front body; it is also a great pose to help counter balance the effects of computer work.

  • Stand with your feet inner hip-distance apart; stack your hips over your ankles and knees.
  • Place your hands on the backs of your hips, like you were placing your hands into pant pockets.
  • Draw your inner elbows and shoulder blades together.
  • Tuck your chin towards your throat.
  • Keep your low back long (there is a tendency to compress the low back and we want to avoid this) and start to lift your chest towards the sky.
  • As your chest lifts, start to move it towards the space behind you (I like to think of an imaginary string lifting the centre of my chest up towards the sky.).
  • Let your gaze travel towards the space behind you as you draw the sides of your throat back to keep the back of your neck long.
  • Hold for 5 cycles of breath.
  • Slowly lift up out of the pose.

Forward Fold

This stretch will help the spine to decompress; great to do after sitting.

  • Be careful with this pose if you have high blood pressure. You will want to rise up slowly so that you don’t get light-headed.
  • Stand with your feet inner hip-distance apart; stack your hips over your ankles and knees.
  • Bend your knees and fold over your legs.
  • Your fingers can come to the floor or you can bend your elbows and bring opposite hands to them.
  • You can stay still or it might feel good to gently sway from side to side.
  • Hold for 5 cycles of breath.

Hip Stretch

This pose is a great way to stretch out the hips, which are often sore from sitting.

  • Come closer to the edge of your set. Sit up tall, with your back away from the seat, and with your feet on the floor. 
  • Lift your left leg up away from the floor.
  • Externally rotate your left thigh bone at the hip (think of playing hackeysack and as your knee moves away from your midline, the inner part of your foot turns up towards the sky).
  • Place your left foot onto your right thigh. You can take a hold of your ankle and help get it to your thigh (no worries!).
  • This could be all the stretch you need. If so, hold here and breathe.
  • If you need more, take your left hand to your left thigh or shin and gently press down, or start to bring your chest towards your thighs, which will deepen the stretch.
  • Hold for 5 cycles of breath.
  • Switch to the other side with your right ankle on your left thigh.
  • Hold for an equal amount of time on this side.

Seated Twist

Twists are naturally detoxifying and feel good to do after sitting for awhile.

  • Sit up tall, closer to the edge of your seat (away from the back of the chair), with your feet on the floor.
  • Take your right hand to your left thigh.
  • Place your left hand on the seat of the chair and close to your left hip.
  • Inhale and grow taller through your spine (think of your head reaching up closer towards the sky) and exhale to take a twist to the left. 
  • Be sure to keep your sitting bones evenly rooted into your seat; your hips should remain level, with your body moving/twisting around your spine.
  • You can take your gaze over your left shoulder.
  • Hold for 5 cycles of breath.
  • Return to centre and repeat on the other side.

Neck Stretch

This stretch will help alleviate tension in the neck as well as soothe neck strain.

  • Sit up tall, closer to the edge of your seat (away from the back of the chair), with your feet on the floor.
  • Take your right hand to the left side of your head.
  • Draw your right ear to your right shoulder, until you feel a stretch through the left side of your neck.
  • You can stay here or if you need more of a stretch, place your left hand by your side and flex your wrist.
  • Hold for 5 cycles of breath.
  • Use your right hand to gently return your head to centre and repeat on the other side.

Finger Stretch

A simple and effective way to move and stretch the fingers.

  • Sit up tall, closer to the edge of your seat (away from the back of the chair), with your feet on the floor.
  • Reach your left arm out in front of you.
  • With your right fingers, draw each one of your left fingers towards you. Hold for a few seconds, and then move on to the next, until each finger has had a good stretch.
  • Repeat on the other side.

Don’t be afraid to get creative! Have a favourite exercise that you normally do at the gym or in your weekly fitness class? Can you find a way to modify it and bring it in to your daily stretch routine? Remember to get up and move and stretch throughout the day; your body will thank you for it!

Five Yoga Poses in Five Minutes to Fight Depression

You feel heavy, dull, tired. Maybe it’s gray outside (or, if you live in the pacific northwest, maybe it’s been gray and dark for weeks). Perhaps a life event (sickness, heartbreak, lethargy, indecision) has you feeling the terrible weight of emotional gravity.

I get it.

Having struggled with bouts of depression since my early twenties, I understand how debilitating an affliction it can be. Whether it affects you seasonally or chronically, practicing self-care in depression can be difficult. And the hardest part can sometimes be taking any action to change. When I feel depressed, pretty much the last thing that I want to do is get on my mat. Let me curl up in my bed and sleep, thank you very much. Or cry.

First, you’re not alone.

Secondly, if you can make the journey to the mat for even five minutes, we can make a change. Set a timer. Step on your mat. Just do it. Because just five minutes will change something. And maybe five minutes today turns into six minutes tomorrow, which turns into ten minutes in a week. Small steps.

We usually think that our minds run our bodies, but the reverse can be true: changing our bodies can change our minds. Check out Amy Cuddy’s inspirational video (bottom) and you’ll see what I mean. By putting your body into a physical appearance of joy and expansion, your mind and your hormones start to get the idea that life isn’t all terrible. Over time, small little changes can start to add up.

Five minutes. Here we go.

Cat/ Cow

Cow

Cat

Simple movement. Depression is stagnant energy. Start to move the energy of your body through simple cat cow. Start moving in all direction, “Color outside the lines.”  Move your spine in all directions. Move your shoulders, move your hips. Get the flow going. Make noise, even if you just hum. Add some voice to what you’re doing. Move the energy.

Sun Salutations

Do three. Big Breaths. Rather quickly. Focus on taking expansive breaths, even larger than usual. Big wide arm movements to move the stuck energy. Audible sighs. Noisy sighs.

Not sure how to do one? Check this out from my friends at Do Yoga With Me. 

Warrior Two

Warrior 2. Be Big.

Get big. Get wide. Push your feet apart. Reach your finger tips apart. Take your shoulders onto your back and stretch. Draw your shoulders onto your back, then reach through your arms. Ten breaths on each side.

High Lunge

High lunge.

The ultimate pose of joy and expansion. Open your arms, press into your feet and fill your body with breath. Get wider, longer, deeper from your toes to your finger tips. Take up your space. Ten breaths on each side.

Ustrasana – Camel

Modified

Full

See my video on doing this safely. Lots of leg strength, lots of grounding. Core strong and engaged.

Lift your chest forward and open. Open heart. Five big breaths.

Repeat it three times, pausing each time to sit on your heels.


Now. How do you feel?

Small steps. Small steps. #smalldailyacts

Amy Cuddy’s video on how body language shapes who we are. A must see.

Also, check out this post, “Not everyone who does yoga is happy, and that’s okay.” From my heart to yours.

 

Six Weeks To Self Love: The Illuminated Woman

My client Julia called me yesterday in despair.

“I promised to make big changes in my life this year. I was so excited and motivated on January 1 ! Now only 2 weeks later I’ve basically thrown them all out the window.”

In the past year, Julia had been under a lot of stress and let her bad habits take over. Her company downsized and even though she didn’t lose her job, she was doing the work of three people and being underpaid. Then for months she didn’t put much effort into finding that great relationship she wanted so badly and had shied away from many social plans.

“I don’t have the time or the energy and I feel so blah. I just want to go home and hide.”

Julia didn’t feel confident and hadn’t been motivated to do anything consistently about it. She kept putting it all off and didn’t feel good physically or mentally about herself or her body.

“Once I feel more confident and better about myself I’ll be motivated to do it all. Once things slow down I’ll really focus on myself.” Julia realized that an entire year had passed and she was still stuck in the same place, making the same promises to herself and not following through.

She then asked the magic question,

“What’s wrong with me? Why do I keep doing this to myself?”

I answered with one of my favourite quotes from A Course in Miracles: “Do you not see that all your misery comes from the strange belief that you are powerless?” Then I asked her, “Do you want to be suffering over the same issues a year from now?”

Julia had been doing what so many of us do:

  • She had been afraid of stepping into her greatness and going for all of her dreams.
  • She had been unwilling to push through discomfort.
  • She had gotten stuck in a pattern of settling, tolerating and holding onto safety.
  • She was playing small to stay under the radar rather than taking the powerful actions to be that woman she dreamed of being.

But…I could hear in her voice: she was tired of listening to herself complain.

“I see that I keep procrastinating and so much time is going by. I’m missing out on so much in life.”

Julia decided to make a commitment to herself. It was time to pour on the self-love and self-care she had been missing! She was ready to let go of all the justifications and bad inner dialog she had entertained and believed for so long.

Does anything about Julia’s situation seem familiar?  Are you ready for your own dose of self-love and self-care? It will help you change anything!

Here’s my suggestion:

Sign up for my 6-week course, The Illuminated Woman. I teach this 6-week coaching course with Dana James (a triple certified nutritionist who is also trained in cognitive behavioural therapy). Specially designed for women, this course will help you undo self-defeating patterns, radically shift your relationship with food, and set up healthy mental and physical habits for self-nourishment and self-love.

Details:

  • Starts Tuesday, February 13
  • Runs for 6 consecutive weeks
  • All calls are recorded in case you can’t make the phone call live!

 WHAT TO EXPECT:

  • Seven-day meal plans for each week – these are plant-rich plans that can be adjusted for a vegan diet.
  • 70-minute calls for 6 consecutive weeks.
  • Your own 45-minute private coaching call with me to tackle specific concerns.
  • Emails to troubleshoot and remind you that you’re supported on this journey.
  • Commitment to each other and ourselves to stay motivated focused and nourished over this 6-week program.

BONUS GIFTS:

  • 1lb raw, organic Beauti-fuel protein powder developed by Dana James.
  • My 7-day Brain & Body Boot Camp program, featuring fitness guru Amanda Russell with streaming video and mind exercises.

PRICING:

  • $699 USD for 6-week program.
  • $625: early bird discounted price for sign-up by Friday, February 2.

It’s time for self-love!

6 Fitness Exercises People Can Easily Do On Their Way to Work

Bike ride for fitness

The journey to work starts the moment you step out of bed. I’m not going to tell you to do a 5-10 min “wake up” workout. I know that is a not a sustainable practice for most people who work full time. It is a far better idea to begin with small activities that will produce incremental gains.

Once you have incorporated these six fitness exercises into your daily work schedule, then you can concentrate on making substantial and long-lasting improvement!

1) Active Teeth Brushing

It may sound strange, but the time you spend brushing your teeth in the morning and evening could be used simultaneously to help you warm up and cool down during the day.

If you spend two minutes brushing your teeth, that means you are standing over the sink for a whole two minutes when you could start activating and mobilize your body. Side/kick back is a great way to activate your glutes and increase circulation in your lower body. Add a few squats and lunges and you will feel a massive difference. It is surprising how such brief exercise can get you energized for the day.

2) Skip One Bus Stop

When I arrived in London I was shocked to find how many bus stops you have here! It prevents you from walking. Getting off one stop early and walking the rest of the distance is going to be very beneficial. Movement promotes healthy living.

Often the next bus stop may only be a few hundred metres away. Trust me, it is worth walking those extra steps. After a couple of weeks these steps accumulate and without realizing you’ve covered miles and miles more than you would have if you had got the bus right to your door.

Skipping one bus stop is the way to go!

3) Take the Stairs

Another great way to train your legs without making your working day any longer is to use stairs. Instead of using escalators or elevators I try to quickly climb stairs, it is often a faster way to get around tube and train stations. Climbing stairs works your core muscles, thighs and glutes.

It is a great exercise to tone your bum and you can do it daily with no gym membership needed!

4) Ride Your Bike to Work

Save money and get fit at the same time. Commuting around big cities can be a nightmare and sometimes you can get stuck and packed into a bus or train. Start riding a bike to work or at least try and ride halfway.

There is no excuse anymore either! I have noticed that more and more, public bikes are available on practically every other street corner in London. It means you do not have to even buy a bike or worry about storage. The health benefits are limitless!

5) Stand

Standing on the way to work on the bus or train is going to make you more secure in your body and strengthen your muscles. If standing for 20-30 minutes is tiring, you need to take a closer look at your physical health. When you stand in public transport you can’t do any elaborate squats or do kick backs but you can activate your glutes and your thighs.

Connect with your body, contract and release your muscles, feel that extra blood circulation.

6) Get a Foldable Commuting Scooter

If owning a bike creates storage issues getting a foldable commuting scooter can be a great solution. It makes you move and it’s a great way to get more active on the way to work. If you don’t have time to get off one stop earlier and walk, a scooter can get you where you need to go much faster. It is easy to carry on the train or a bus and when you get to work you can store it under your desk.

Get Started Today!

Hopefully with a bit of hard work you can kickstart your journey towards being fit and active. Making these small changes can have a big impact and may be the foundation from which you can launch yourself into a healthier and more active lifestyle.

How Meditation Helped Me Through Addiction Recovery

Overcoming addiction is singlehandedly the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life.

Through addiction and recovery, I learned more about myself than I ever thought possible. I learned that my mind was highly susceptible to outside influence, and that’s something I desperately needed to change.

My painful road to addiction

In the prime of my life, I was in a terrible car wreck. My friends and I were driving home from the beach on a beautiful sunny day in June. The world was at our feet. Or so we thought.

My friend John was driving along the long stretch of road that ran alongside the ocean. It was a beautiful drive, and he liked to drive fast.

I knew it was dangerous, but I didn’t want to seem uncool. So I sat there in silence.

As we were careening down that road, a white sedan attempted a u-turn into our lane. Either she didn’t see us or didn’t realize how fast we were going. The next thing I knew, I was in a hospital bed. I was recovering from many injuries, including a spinal fracture. Pain medications become a way of life.

I lost two friends that day, including John. And that’s a pain that no meds could cure.

I returned home from the hospital with a long list of care instructions and a prescription for OxyContin. The painkillers worked as advertised. They worked on the physical pain and even seemed to dull my emotional pain.

At first, I took my prescription as recommended. But it wasn’t long before I needed higher doses to relieve the same pain. I was amazed at how quickly my tolerance grew.

Prescription painkiller addiction

I don’t remember the exact moment when I realized I was addicted. I started to catch on when my doctor was reluctant to refill my prescription. But part of me believed he was overreacting. Part of me needed to believe that.

After my own doctor stopped prescribing pills, I found others who would. In addiction circles, we call this “doctor shopping.”

I guess I realized I had a problem when I was on my second or third doctor. Because I started having trouble getting refills, I had to go longer periods without “a fix.” Then I felt physical withdrawal symptoms, and I couldn’t ignore the problem any longer. I was an addict.

Addiction and brain chemistry

It’s a very humbling moment to realize you’ve become an addict. How did this happen?

From the outside, it’s easy to wonder why I wouldn’t get help at this point. The answer? I had a disease. The disease of addiction changes your brain chemistry so you lose your own free will.

The progression from prescription pills to heroin was much easier than I would have ever expected. And then came another level of shame. People think addicts don’t care about these things, but that’s not true. We care; we just can’t help it.

When I finally hit rock bottom, I was ready and willing to do whatever it took to get sober. I was motivated, but I didn’t fully understand what was in store for me.

Depression, anxiety, and recovery

I started at a typical rehab center where they helped me through the physical detoxification process. This is the part that includes some very ugly withdrawal symptoms.

But that wasn’t the worst of it by far.

They released me from the rehab shortly after my physical symptoms subsided. And then I met PAWS.

Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) is the stage of recovery that comes next. Because drugs alter your brain chemistry, it can take months or even years for your brain to relearn how to work without them. During this time, your brain struggles to supply the right amount of natural dopamine to keep you functioning normally. This is why depression and anxiety are such major parts of recovery.

I was struggling hard. I was even thinking about relapsing.

And then I met the person who would change everything.

How meditation helped me overcome addiction

On a particularly difficult day, I stopped for coffee on the way to work and ran into an old friend from rehab. He looked amazing!

Unlike me, he seemed confident and secure in his sobriety. I jokingly asked him his secret, as if there’s a magic pill or something. In reality, I was convinced that he was just a stronger person than I was.

When he told me what he was doing, I was skeptical.

Barry credited meditation for pulling him out of the depths of despair. That sounds dramatic, I know, but those depths are real. I was talking to Barry from my own despair pit on that very day.

When I got home, I began feverishly researching meditation. And then it all made sense.

What I learned that day was enough to drive me to start meditating straight away.

The meditation-recovery connection

As it turns out, meditation and drug abuse have something in common: Dopamine.

Dopamine is closely associated with pleasure-seeking activities, including addiction, but it also has other roles. It plays a part in memory, mood, learning, and sleep. If your body doesn’t have enough dopamine, you may become depressed. In the case of addiction, dopamine is partially responsible for the intense cravings that drive you to use drugs.

Interestingly enough, meditation also increases dopamine in the brain. In fact, Kjaer and colleagues (2002) found that meditation increased endogenous dopamine by 65 percent.

Through my practice, I’ve learned that meditation not only provides a natural dopamine boost, but it also helps strengthen the mind. When I finally gained some control over my negative thought patterns, I found it much easier to resist any cravings.

I’m not sure where I was headed on that day that I met Barry in the coffee shop, but my future wasn’t looking good. Today, I have a completely different outlook, and I feel like I have a new lease on life. It was still a difficult journey, but meditation helped me overcome the biggest struggle of my life.

Source:

Kjaer, T. W.; Bertelsen, C.; Piccini, P.; Brooks, D.; Alving, J.; Lou, H. C. Cognitive Brain Research 2002, 13 (2), 255–259.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11958969/

 

Five Poses For Desk Jockies

This is for all the desk jockeys out there. You know who you are. Your days are spent in front of a computer – you’ve likely got tight hips, a sore low back, rounded shoulders, neck pain, wrist pain, overall poor posture, and soreness – and you know that your posture is taking a hit. You can feel the effects that your non-physical job is having on your physical body, and you know that you need to take action in order to feel better.

You have likely heard the saying that sitting is the new smoking. When those words first rang through my ears, I had to pause and really thing about them. Could it be true? No. I mean, maybe? Hmm. While being sedentary isn’t quite as harmful as inhaling carcinogenic chemicals, sitting can wreak havoc on your body.

According to Dr. Alice Chen in this Huffington Post video, the average American is sitting for 7.7 hours per day! As we sit there are many physical and physiological effects on the body.

Side effects of sitting include:

  • Sore and tight muscles due to reduced circulation;
  • Low back pain due to compression of the spine;
  • Compression of your ribs, lungs, and digestive organs;
  • Over-stretching of the rhomboids and upper back muscles;
  • Neck strain;
  • Brain fog, also due to lack of circulation and getting oxygen to the brain.

Now that we know some of the nasty side effects that can happen from too much sitting, let’s talk about some yoga poses that you can do to help lessen the side effects.

Hold on a second, my timer just went off, which is my reminder to get up and move. So, how about if you close your eyes and take 5 deep breaths? This will give you a moment to connect to your breath, and will also give me time to stand and stretch.

Thanks! Ok, I’m back. Experts recommend that we take a break from sitting and get up and move. In this TODAY article, Keith Diaz – a lead author at Columbia University Medical Center – suggests movement every 30 minutes, even if it is just for 60 seconds. You can set a timer or your phone to remind you to get up and move. You might take a lap around your office, fill up your water glass, or just stand and fold over your legs, which will also help your spine to decompress.

Here are 5 yoga poses that will help counter the effects of sitting. It won’t take you long to get through all of these, so no more excuses, get moving. NOW!

  1. Cow/Cat

These two poses help to bring movement into the spine, open up the chest, and unite movement and breath.

  • Come to a tabletop position, with your wrists under your shoulders and your knees under your hips. Your toes can be tucked (as shown) or untucked.
  • As you inhale, soften your belly towards the earth. Widen your collar bones as you pull your heart through your shoulders and look up. Let your sitting bones widen apart and point up towards the space behind you.
  • As you exhale, push the earth away from you. With the movement initiating from your tailbone, round through your spine as you look towards your thighs. Squeeze your belly button towards your spine as you empty the air from your lungs. Spread your shoulder blades apart. Keep your neck muscles relaxed. Create a lot of space between your chest and the earth.
  • Continue for 5 cycles of breath.

*For an added stretch through the forearms, turn your hands so your fingers are pointing towards your knees, with the heels of your hands flat on the earth. You might need to bring your hands closer to your knees. If you don’t feel a stretch, start to slowly move your hips towards your heels until you find the desired stretch.

  1. Downward Facing Dog

This pose helps to lengthen the spine, strengthen the wrists and arms, decompress
the low back, and stretch the legs.

  • Start in a tabletop position with your hands placed outer shoulder-width apart. Walk your hands one hand’s length forward. Align your middle fingers to point straight ahead while spreading the fingers wide.
  • Connect the base of each finger to the ground and then press down through the fingertips and heel of the hand. Be sure to keep the outside edges of your index fingers pressing into the earth and not peeling away from it.
  • Tuck your toes, lift your knees and draw your sitting bones towards the space behind you. Bring length into your spine until you are in the shape of an upside-down letter “V”. Look at your feet to be sure they are placed hip-width apart (about two fists-width between the inner edges of your feet).
  • Spin your inner elbows slightly up towards the sky until you feel your upper arm bones externally rotate and your collar bones widen. Feel the arm bones plug into your body as the shoulders draw away from your ears.
  • Keep length in the spine and feel the torso lengthen as the hips pull back. Soften the space behind the knees and reach the heels towards the ground.
  • Look forward and check to see that your hands are still connected to the earth. Keep your ears in line with your biceps and the muscles of your neck relaxed. Feel your side body muscles of your upper and mid back engage, which will help stabilize you and bring length to the spine. Strengthening these muscles helps alleviate strain on the wrists and you’ll create a sustainable Downward Dog.
  • Hold for 5 breaths.
  1. Standing Backbend

This pose helps to open the chest and strengthen the upper back body.

  • With your feet hip-distance apart, take the heels of your hands onto the backs of the hips (like you were placing your hands into pant pockets) with your fingertips pointing towards the ground.
  • Lengthen your tailbone towards the earth as your belly draws up and in.
  • Draw your inner elbows together and bring your shoulder blades closer together. This will help lift the back of the heart towards the front of the chest.
  • Draw your chin towards your throat and then lift your heart up towards the sky. Let your eyes look towards the space behind you.
  • Root through your heels and keep your hips stacked on top of your knees (so they don’t press too far forward).
  • Use your inhale breath to find expansion through your collar bones and exhale as you draw your shoulder blades closer together and open through your chest.
  • Hold for 5 breaths.
  • Use your inhale breath to slowly rise back up.
  1. Supported Bridge

This pose helps relax the hip flexors (which are often tight from sitting) as well as open
up the chest.

  • Lie down on your back with your knees bent, your feet hip-width apart, and your arms by your sides.
  • Press your heels into the ground and lift your hips up towards the sky.
  • Keep the space that you have created underneath your hips, place a block (or two) underneath your sacrum (base of your spine), and then lower your hips down to the block.
  • Hold for 5 breaths.
  • Press down through your heels, lift your hips, remove the blocks, and gently lower your hips to the ground.
  1. Twist

Twists are great for overall spine health and also act as a way to naturally detoxify the
body.

  • Lie down on your back with your knees bent and your feet hip-width apart. Reach your arms out wide.
  • Press down through your heels to lift your hips and slide them a few inches to your left, then set your hips down.
  • Let your knees gently fall to the right, bringing them towards the ground.
  • If there is space between your knees, you can place a block in between the knees or underneath the right knee.
  • Turn your head to the left as long as there is no discomfort in your neck.
  • If the twist feels too intense, press your feet away from you, which will take the knees away from the chest.
  • If you want to make the twist more intense, draw your knees closer towards your chest.
  • Hold for 5-8 breaths, longer if you like.
  • Bring your gaze back to centre, and then bring your knees and hips back to centre.
  • Repeat on the left side.

Sometimes, it is the smallest changes that can lead us to different, healthier habits. Begin to notice how your body feels when you return back to the office. As your brain and body start to communicate more effectively, you might find that your posture at work starts to improve. You might notice that your body is a bit less stiff than it used to be. Help reduce office fatigue by choosing to get up and move throughout the day, and add these simple stretches into your daily routine. Desk jockey, you’ve got this!

Book Review: Serving the Broccoli Gods

Mary Purdy Nutritional Show

Hilarious. I want to be her friend.

She had me from the first line:

“When I was four, my parents received a report card from my kindergarten teacher. The first line read, “Mary is a totally competent person.””

Self-deprecating, wise-cracking, and personable, Mary’s new book Serving the Broccoli Gods is a fun breath of fresh air. The bulk of the book consists of her entertaining personal stories (and thank you Mary, for putting some of your heart on your sleeve for us in addition to your humour), dabbed with recipes, tips, and food suggestions. It’s rather like hanging out with a fun galpal who sprinkles your chats with intriguing facts, nutritional research, and a rampant commitment to healthy eating.

Though her passion for food radiates from every page, the book is less about plying you with advice and recipes (there are really only seven or so direct info-boxes on food) than it is about giving you an introduction to Mary herself. It’s a quick read at only 75 pages. She’s your wise-cracking friend, your straight talking advisor. And if you like her style, head on over to her youtube channel and get oodles of nutritional resources on Mary’s Nutrition Show.

Check it out on Amazon.

 

Why you should go sugarfree

You may have heard, sugar sucks for you.

Sugar has been linked to obesity and bad cholesterol, which has been linked to an increased chance of cancer. And while researchers are usually cautious about drawing a direct link between your sweet tooth and a cancer link, they have gone so far as to indicate that sugar is cancer’s friend and that sugar consumption is related to cardiovascular fatality.

While there is science to indicate eating sugar may not be great for you longterm, I highly advocate quitting sugar for awhile because of how it will shift the way that you feel. I did a sugar fast a couple of years ago and it was revelatory. For one month, I avoided food that contained any added sugar. Obviously I stayed off of alcohol, sweet drinks, and desserts, but I also avoided processed salad dressings, sugary condiments, and packaged food (for the love of god, they put sugar in bread and tomato sauce!).  I even took fruit off the menu.

The results:

  • No cravings
  • No energy spikes and plunges
  • Slept better
  • Was less hungry
  • Stuff that was naturally sweet tasted better (I had a carrot and it was like rediscovering creme brûlée)
  • I lost weight effortlessly

After my month, I liked the way that I felt so much that I stayed sugar-conscious, if not completely sugar free. But doing a real reset occasionally is very helpful in kickstarting good habits and raising our levels of sugar-consciousness.

Now is the perfect opportunity to reset your palate and your metabolism. New year, new habits, new body.

Want some support and camaraderie? Well, I gotta group of fabulous individuals all doing one month sugar free.  Give it a try for just a week and see how you feel.

Join the party!

For fun: who eats the most sugar globally.

 

 

Clean up your skin products for the New Year

Health-conscious readers, check it out!

Skin products – makeup, body care, sunscreen – can be a sneaky source of toxins and chemicals. And here we are, applying them directly on our skin! In a nutshell, the US only bans 30 toxic chemicals from skin products; Beautycounter bans 1500. One of my long time friends Ashley Wilson recently got involved with BeautyCounter. Since she’s a nurse, a smarty pants, and super conscious about her household products, I wanted to share her discoveries with you.

Just in time for your New Years Resolution.


Rachel: So, tell my readers a little about you?

Ashley: I am a Vancouverite, a Registered Nurse (RN) at Canuck Place Hospice and a mom of two awesome, energetic children, 4.5 year old girl and a 1 year old boy. I have traveled extensively and have recently been focused on my kiddos.

Rachel: What got you interested in the quality of household products? 

Ashley: Many years ago now,  I read an article about Respiratory Therapists (RTs) in the hospital getting pulmonary diseases and it was traced to the nebulized medications they were giving. When you administer medications as a mist, you are frequently standing around the person and many times holding the mask on the person. I did this with countless of my paediatric patients. The study was of RTs, but RNs also give these medications. I became concerned about the chemicals I was being exposed to and inhaling. That which helps sick lungs could damage healthy ones. It was then that I noticed that as I was liberally spraying Windex in my bathroom that I could taste the chemicals.

Rachel: Ew.

Ashley: Yeah! I started thinking about how much I must be inhaling in this small room. This got me thinking about all the chemicals I use in my home and how much I am inhaling, absorbing or inadvertently eating. I started putting my toothbrush away while I sprayed the mirror. I wondered about when I  scrubbed my tub with chemicals, how much is rinsed away and how much is added to my next bath. I did a little research and easily found alternatives for cleaning. I switched to vinegar and baking soda and have never looked back. However, when it came to beauty care products and detergents, I found that more difficult.

Rachel: Why?

Ashley: There is a list of the dirty dozen that you have to make sure are not in your products. I  found it hard to remember what I should avoid and even harder to find the list of  ingredients on many of the products. On top of that, my daughter wants to play with makeup and I can’t bring myself to put anything on her. 

Rachel: How did you get involved in Beauty Counter?

Ashley: I was introduced to Beautycounter from my friend Jen Steidl. She lives in Seattle and also a nurse and we have known each other a long time and had many adventures. Her two friends – a Chiropractor a Naturopath – got her involved. Jen told me about the founder and CEO Gregg Renfrew. Gregg (a woman) went through a similar process as myself of wanted to rid her home of chemicals. Her awareness was sparked after watching the documentary,  The Inconvenient Truth. This led her to being appalled by what was happening in the beauty industry.  

Rachel: Why, what’s going on in the beauty industry?

Ashley: In the United States, only 30 toxic chemicals have been banned. The last time legislation was changed was in 1938 when a woman went blind from an eyelash thickening treatment!  Canada is better: 600 toxic chemicals have been banned. The United Kingdom bans 1400. But Beautycounter bans 1500, and these 1500 chemicals comprises Beautycounter’s Never List. This list continues to grow.

Rachel: Whoa. That’s insane!  Are these chemicals really that bad?

Ashley: They are hormone disruptors, and some are connected to infertility and cause cancer. Even with chemicals banned, regulating the companies is minimal. The governments don’t have the manpower. In addition, there are many loopholes companies can get around the regulations, such as listing fragrance. This is a big warning sign on any label. Fragrance can encompassed anything and not be monitored (it is seen as their secret recipe). Complaints can be made and not have to be reported to the government agency.

Rachel: Yikes. So you joined their team?

Ashley: I want to be with a company that is making a change and that is being a disruptor. I also want a side hustle that I believe in. 🙂 

Rachel: Why do you like Beautycounter?

Beautycounter considers people, planet and profits equally. They are not just leading the way by making safer beauty care; they want to change the laws. They are going to DC and Ottawa and working on getting legislations changed. They want transparency and are being leaders. They are making a difference. They recently joined with Tuft University to support independent research.

Rachel: Okay, that sounds good. 

Ashley: I love the mission. The number one goal of Beautycounter is to educate. Also, it’s easy. I can order from my home. And if I don’t like it, I can return what I bought and I have 60 days to do so.

Rachel: What are your fave products?

Ashley: I love the products!! I love the cleansing balm, I love the body scrub and I love the dew skin foundation. What really got me interested was the sunscreen. It is great and fantastic for my kids.  Beautycounter is always coming out with new eye shadow palettes and lip gloss colours. Christy Coleman is a celebrity makeup artist that is on the team to bring in expert knowledge and gives awesome tips. There is a skincare regime for everyone. And make up… All the make up you would ever need.

Rachel: Okay, give us the skinny. What should people do to find out more?

Ashley: Check them out online. There is a ton of information on their website. You can be a client, hold a social, become a member, or partner with me.  I would love to be your consultant. You pay $25 USD per year to be a member, and you get free shipping after $100 USD and 15% product credit and special offers. A social is where you invite a few friends to your home or coffee shop and I can tell them about Beautycounter and our mission. As the host, you are eligible for free gifts and 50% of products depending on how much your group buys. Contact me anytime!

Rachel: Awesome.